practice. Just because you are seated at your
own computer doesn’t mean that people will come
to chat with you for no reason. Even in this
medium of Internet dating, you must take the
initiative and actively seek to contact those you
But even if you contact some people or they
contact you, there are some incredibly stupid
things guys are doing on Internet dating and
singles sites ad than complain that all women are
Women are searching men which know to make them
feel good and have great time with. They are
looking for someone intelligent, someone who
listens, a man with a good sense of humor, a well-
rounded person with a positive attitude.
If you want to get some responses and even get to
know closely women by online dating you have to
stop doing the mistakes that are chasing all the
women away. So:
1. Women browse profiles to find their match just
like you do. Post a good recent picture of
yourself, a nice picture that shows your sense of
humor or style. Do not send women pictures of
your “privates”. They will ask if they want to
2. Make sure your profile contains proper
spelling and grammar. Women like an intelligent
person. Do not ruin your chances with simple
mistakes in your profile. Take some time to get
it right guys and you will get a response.
3. Women usually like men with some class, so don’
t choose a nickname that has a sexual innuendo (
unless you are on an adult dating site). You don’
t want to give the impression that you’re just
searching for a one night stand.
4. Don’t use negative words in your profile.
Women are much more likely to be attracted to a
5. Send individual emails and put some thought
into contacting women on these dating sites.
Women get 100 emails a day from all sorts of guys.
If you copy and paste 10 exactly same emails and
send them off you just go over-looked.
6. Show women that you are a caring person. Get
to know the woman. Ask questions to learn about
whom she is, what she does, etc. Don’t talk only
7. Do not pretend that you are willing to fly
half way round the world to meet someone you have
been chatting to when using online dating sites
if you are not really serious. It’s not fair on
anyone including you. It’s easy to get carried
away with a lovely person seven thousand miles
away, but are you really going to get out of that
chair and go and meet them? If you are, you have
our utmost support and respect. If you are really
only looking for someone in your state or close
to home then stick with that and make it clear.
8. If you are married don’t lie, tell from the
very beginning. Women can feel this and it gets
you nowhere. If you are sincere maybe you find
someone who is willing to spend some good time
9. If a woman tells you that she is not
interested in you do not keep sending her
messages. You are losing your time and she can
complain that you are harassing her.
Be patient, it takes time to find someone special
when using online dating sites and dating
services, like anywhere else for that matter.